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Jury Rules for Unwed Father in Landmark Adoption Case : Families: Ex-fiancee, her family and attorney had conspired to keep him from stopping his child’s placement with family, jurors find.

TIMES STAFF WRITER

In a groundbreaking verdict that may redefine the rights of unwed fathers, a jury here Monday found that a woman, her family and her lawyer conspired to deprive her ex-fiance of a chance to halt the adoption of the couple’s newborn child.

The jury awarded the father $5 million in punitive damages from the lawyer alone, and $2.85 million more in compensatory and punitive damages from the woman, three family members and the attorney.

The case against Anne G. Conaty, her parents, her brother and Beverly Hills attorney David Keene Leavitt had drawn the attention of child welfare professionals nationwide because it raised ethical questions about whether a father can be shut out of adoption decisions.

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The mother and her lawyer argued that she alone had the right to decide whether to place the baby for adoption with a Canadian couple five years ago.

The father, Dr. John W. Kessel, believed otherwise. He sued in Canada, seeking to be named joint guardian of the child. Failing there, he filed the civil action here.

The jury deliberated about five hours Monday before returning a verdict in Kessel’s favor.

“The jury believed that Mr. Kessel’s son was unlawfully sold by Mr. Leavitt to a Canadian couple,” said Marvin Masters, the father’s attorney. “This issue has been bandied around this country for years, and these jurors are the first to send a message that fathers’ rights in these kinds of cases exist.”

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Although laws determining the rights of unwed fathers to block adoptions vary from state to state, most, including West Virginia and California, allow a father at least a court hearing to express his wish for custody of the child.

“The mother and her lawyer must make an effort to let a father have his day in court,” said Joan Hollinger, a UC Berkeley family law professor who has helped draft a proposed uniform adoption act, a set of state laws that would make interstate adoption rules more consistent. “If they don’t, they’re depriving the father of his constitutional rights--and that’s fraud.”

The trial marked the first time that a court has allowed a jury to hear accusations that a pregnant woman conspired with an attorney and her family to flee from a father seeking custody of their child.

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In an instruction to jurors that stung the Conatys and Leavitt, the trial judge said a biological parent’s “natural right to the custody of his child” should not be taken away unless the parent is deemed unfit.

After the verdict, Leavitt called that ruling “totally erroneous.”

“It’s extremely frightening that an attorney can arrange an adoption in California and have a court 2,000 miles away tell a jury five years after the fact that all kinds of laws are involved that no one has ever heard of,” he said. “It’s extreme and unexpected and unjustified.”

Leavitt said he is not insured against a damages claim. He said he and the Conatys will appeal.

Testimony in the trial spun out like a Southern gothic romance novel as members of two prominent and intensely private families were forced to relate a tale of chastity, reluctant sex, a surprise pregnancy, betrayal and ultimately a cross-country pursuit. Throughout the proceedings, the stern visage of Conaty’s late uncle has stared down from a portrait gallery of judges on the wall; the courtroom was his for eight years.

Conaty, then 31, is alleged to have skipped around the country for seven months in 1991 while pregnant to evade her former fiance Kessel and a summons to appear in a West Virginia court hearing on his paternity suit. She gave birth in Los Angeles in July, 1991, under an assumed name. She then allowed the baby to be adopted by an Edmonton couple.

Kessel, then 35, alleged that the Conaty family and Leavitt knew that he wanted to raise the unborn child if his ex-girlfriend did not. After fruitless attempts to negotiate or reconcile with her, he obtained a temporary injunction to prevent an adoption until his paternity suit was resolved.

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“You hear so much about deadbeat dads,” said Cheryl Eifert, the first lawyer Kessel hired to represent him. “Well, here’s a guy who earnestly wanted to parent, and the law did nothing to help him.”

At the center of the storm was Leavitt, a leading figure in the burgeoning U.S. private adoption business, which is estimated to generate $800 million to $1 billion a year for attorneys, entrepreneurs and agencies.

Working from his base in Beverly Hills, he claims to have completed 9,000 adoptions since 1960--an average of more than 250 a year--and acknowledges that he grosses up to $500,000 annually in fees from adoptive parents.

He has appeared frequently on television talk shows such as “Oprah!” and “Larry King Live” to argue that unwed fathers are mere “sperm donors” or “spoilers” who have no right even to be told of a woman’s adoption plans, much less have a voice in the process.

Indeed, in testimony here, Leavitt described Kessel--who had a seven-year relationship with Conaty--as a “recreational inseminator.”

In his own defense, Leavitt told jurors that he believes that unwed fathers have no constitutional right to determine a course for their unborn children. He also said Conaty had a right to travel freely.

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Until Monday, Leavitt had never been successfully sued over his practice and has never been censured by the State Bar of California. But his beliefs and methods are far from mainstream.

“If a father takes steps to assert his paternity before a child’s birth, and a lawyer does anything to deprive the fellow of his rights, that is unethical--he should be sued,” said Samuel C. Totaro, president-elect of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys. “These are the types of fathers you want to work with. You shouldn’t be trampling over them.”

Adoption experts believe that if the verdict is upheld on appeal, the case will bolster the parental ambitions of unwed men by dramatically raising the stakes of defying them.

Leavitt testified that he arranged for the Edmonton couple to pick up Conaty’s infant at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center three days after birth largely because the province of Alberta does not recognize natural fathers unless they have lived with the mother for 300 days. “His consent was utterly immaterial up there,” Leavitt told jurors, referring to Alberta.

Kessel has had no legal right to contact or be a part of his son’s life. His attorney, Marvin Masters, said that has “devastated” his client. And in closing arguments Monday, Masters said to Leavitt, “John Kessel’s baby was just another baby to sell.”

“This is a pipeline for babies out of the country,” Masters told jurors. Leavitt “preys upon mothers of children who don’t want the fathers in their lives.”

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Leavitt said he has arranged 20 adoptions in Alberta in his career. A weeklong series of articles in a Calgary, Alberta, newspaper last year about four Leavitt cases contested by birth fathers there spurred a change in the province’s adoption laws. New laws, adopted in March, ban lawyers from arranging private adoptions in the province.

Conaty, a former kindergarten teacher at a Catholic school, told jurors that she and the beefy, well-tailored Kessel fell in love in 1983 and dated steadily and chastely for six years. She said she wanted to be a virgin on her wedding day.

Early in 1990, Kessel, a medical student and the son of a leading physician in nearby Logan County, proposed marriage, and Conaty said she accepted. But their relationship began to deteriorate when they broke the news to her parents, she said.

The two broke up, and began dating other people before reuniting a few months later.

A tall and slender woman with a strong jaw and regal posture, Conaty told jurors, “I gave myself up” to Kessel sexually that summer only because she feared losing him to another woman.

When Conaty became pregnant in October that year, she said Kessel offered to marry her again--and she accepted again. But again, they grew apart.

Conaty said she hit the road in early January--at first guided in her travels only by her parents and brother Brian, a former Cabell County assistant prosecutor.

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Leavitt said in an interview that Conaty left town because Kessel had begun to harass her and urge her to have an abortion--allegations that Kessel denied in testimony.

She finally determined that she could not raise the child alone, and decided to put her baby up for adoption.

Meanwhile, back in Huntington, Kessel had launched an unsuccessful effort to find her. Finally, on June 3, 1991, he filed a paternity suit in an effort to establish himself as the father and assert his right to parent the child.

Normally, legal experts say, that act should have halted adoption placement proceedings in California until a West Virginia court heard Kessel’s claims.

But it did not, because two days later Conaty signed a document in Leavitt’s Beverly Hills office in which she refused to state the name of the father and swore that he had not initiated legal action to establish paternity.

Three weeks later, Kessel obtained a temporary injunction blocking Conaty from making an adoption plan before his paternity case could be heard.

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In the past four years, both Conaty and Kessel, now a physician in North Carolina, have married others. Neither has children.

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